arewefreebies?

justwatchedTHENOTEBOOKacoupleofdaysago.havetosaythatitsthepuristandbestlovestory.afteralltheseivebeenthrough,thisisthefirststorythatcanbringoutmytearsagain.ithoughtiwouldntshednosinglebitoftearstoanystupidlovestories.butfrankly,thisreallymovedmedeeply.thenherecameTHEFREEBIEtonight.acouplebecomessoimpassionatetowardseachother.afteralltheyhaveallthebestcommunicationandloveforagood7-year.itseemstobeabitunrealistic,yetverypossible.ifyouweretoofrankandhonestandopentoyourhoney,woulditendupjustlikethis?duringwatchingthemovieiwasthinkingwasitbecausethedirectorcutoutsomethinginreallifethatmadealltheplotsreasonable?thenwhenitcametotheend,thepregnantannouncingscenedidstrokemeabit.maybethatissomethinggenerallywillhappeninreallifethatsomittedinthemovie.babyisthecrucialelementtoprolonglovebetweencouples,necessarily.ordoesthecouplehavetoomuchsparetime,nochildren,nocareer,nofinancial/political/livingdifficulties...thatmakethemthinktoomuchoutofsomeweirdfuckedupline?despiteoftheHYPOTHETICALLYSPEAKINGplotinthemovie,whatthedirectorsurelywantstoshowusistheHYPOTHETICALLYhappenedpart.whatseemedtobesofirmcouldbegonesoeasily.suspicions,concealing,lies...allcameaftertheoriginally-agreed-by-bothplan,andfinallytherelationshiphastheleastpossibilitytojustgettalkedandfadeawaylikenothingeverhappened.sorrytobenegativeandpessimistic,butimerelybelievethatnobodycanbetrusted,evenoneself.becausewearelivingthingsandweCHANGEfromtimetotime.sowhatsitbetweenTHENOTEBOOKandTHEFREEBIE?thatisloveDOESexistanditssuchawonderfulthing.yetloveDOESfadeatsomepointoutofcertainreasons,dependsonindividuals.ifyouareluckyenoughtoexperiencetheperfectlove,goforit.ifshithappens,cryforawholebunchthengetholloworputyourselfinthemarketagain.afterall,thisislife.feelregretforthethingsyoudidntdobutnotthethingsyoudid.icantsayenjoyeverymomentofyourlife,butme,itrymybesttoliveeverysinglebitofitandexperienceitthemost.proorcon.justwritesomefeelingsbroughtbythemovieandnotprettymucharealreviewforit,sorry.