Mamihlapinatapai

一个小片段。女孩儿说她最喜欢一个词是“Mamihlapinatapai”，来自南美一种叫Yaghan的已失传语言。表达的是两个人同时都希望开始一件事情，但没有人愿意打破僵局的那一瞬间的感觉。她说，“Couldbeliketwopeopleatapartywantingtoapporacheachotherandneitherquitebraveenoughtomakethefirstmove.”让我想起FrancesHa里的那一段独白：quot;Itsthatthingwhenyourewithsomebody,andyoulovethemandyouknowit,andtheyloveyouandyouknowit,butitsaparty,andbothofyouaretalkingtootherpeople,andyouarelaughingandshinning,andyoulookacrosstheroomandcatcheachotherseyes,butnotbecauseyourepossessiveoritspreciselysexual,butbecausethatisthepersoninyourlife.Itissadandfunny,butonlybecausethislifewillend,anditsthesecretworldthatexiststhere,inpublic,unnoticed,thatnooneelseknowsabout.Itsliketheanotherdimensionthatexistsaroundusthatnoonehavetheabilitytoperceive.ThatswhatIwantoutofarelationship.quot;