Thepowerofawilledwoman,atruestory!

“Youshouldn’tquitsomethingjustcauseitishard”“Standingstrongdoesn’tmeanjustusingyourlegs,youcanstandstrongontheinside,”Itiswhattheteachertoldthelittlegirlwhowasdisabledwhenthegirldecidetoquit.Iamfascinatingwithmusicthesedays,sowhenIfirstsawthecaptionofthemovie”MusicofTheHeart”,IknowitmustbethemovieIwouldlike.Itisindeednotamovieforcommercialmeans.Moviestargetingtomakeprofitsaregenerallyworthless.Actually,allmeaningfulmoviesareexpressionsofthethoughtsandemotion,orprovidinginnovativeperspectivestoexplorehumansociety.Thismoviecanbeclassifiedasadocumentary,andalsoameaningfulone.Awoman,anavywife,aviolinteacherandamotherallthesearetherolestheactressinthemoviehastoplayinlife,andalsogenerallythemainsocialrolesofanormalperson.Themovierevealsseveraluniversalissuesconcerningthesocialstatuesofwomen,divorce,theracialdivergence.andmoresignificantlyandprofoundly,thismovieMusicisthelanguageofhumaninside.‘Whenheplaysmusic,hiswholefacelightsup’whenIamlisteningtomusic,itcanlightmeup,inspiremeandrefillmystrength.Itisalsoaeffectivewaytorelaxmyself.Ithoughtthatmusicwasuseless;artisnothingbutthedebouchmentsofemotionofsomeothersensitivepersonandIdon’tneedtoknowwhatotherthinkabouttheworld.AfterIexperiencealltheseoddsanddifficulties,Igraduallyfindthevalueofart.Itismagic,anditistheprettiestpiecesofworkfelldownformtheheavenbesidesthenaturebeauty.Idoubtthatanytalentedartiestdaretoclaimthatallthemasterpiecesarethefrutionoftheirhardworking.Talentissomethingendowedbygod,andthegreatpiecesofartarealsothegiftsofgodwhichcanmakethemundaneworldabetterplace.Amancannotappreciatethebeautyofartisagreatlose.Lifewithoutthedecorationofartismuchlessfascinating.IconfessIamaboor,andIregretthatIcannotfindbeautyinlife.Iamadoomedtechnicianandmylifedestinedtorelatewithcodingandcalculation,impassiverepetitions.“Nickyisintroubleandyouneedtodealwithit”Imagineifyouarethemotherandyouhearthisaboutyouson.,Whatwillyouthinkofit?Disappointment,penance,allkindofemotionmergestogethertoanguishyou.Forasinglemother,nothingmeansmorethanhissons,theonlyrelianceandtherealheart.Andnothingismoredesperatethananegativeson.Shecantreatherselfbad,butshecannotbringanytinyslightinjuretohersonandalsoshecannottolerantthedisturbanceformtheoutsidetospoilherson.WhenIsawthatthelieutenant（husbandoftheviolinteacher）desertedhisfamily,hiswifeandtwolovelyboys.Andsawthegriefthefamilysuffered.Iwasirritated.Whataselfishman.Thatkindofmancouldneverfindtrueloveaswellasinnersatisfaction.Iwillneverdothattomywifeespeciallywhenshehaschildrentorear,Iwillnevergiveawaymyfamily.Forme,itismyessentialresponsibilitytobringthemhappy.Icouldnevergrieveanyoneforthesakeofmyownhappiness.Andtherealhappinessisthementalandmoralcomplacentandselfappreciation.ThoughImaynothavethechancetoflirtwithbeautifulyoungladies,orhavesomeromanticloveexperience,IwillfeelsatisfiedwhenIhavetheabilitytorealizemyobligationandactuallyfulfillmyobligation.Therearealwaysbeingsomethingtolightyouup,music,children,friends,family.Soneverlosefaith,nevergiveup.Everythingmatterstome,everyonemakesense,IcanneverlostmyselfmerelybecauseIfailedonceorsomeoneleftme.Ihaveaflexibleandabundantlife.Witticismslike“IfyouhavesomeneedsthatIdon’tmeet,youwouldgoandhavethemmetbysomebodyelse”arethesparklesdispersedthroughoutthemoviewhicharesensible.Itpointsouttheessenceofrelationshipsbetweencouples.Noonecanperfectlymeettheneedsofothers,whetheryouwillgotosomebodyelsedetermineswhetheryouareamanwillasenseofresponsibility.Loveandcommitmentareinterdependentissues.Sheissofearedtobedumpedagain,andshouldwebecautioustobeginanewrelationship?“Icantakecareofmyself,andIcantakecareofyou.”Itiseasiersaidthandone,particularlyforawoman.Struggleistheperpetualrhythmoflife.Onehastostrivetoachievesomegoalsorjustaccepttherealityandbeindifferenttothelosses.However,youhavetomakechange,youhavetosaynotodestine.Ibelievefate,butIthinkthatsometimefateisjustkiddingyou,andyousubmittofateatfirsthand,youlostthechancetoplaymore.Perhapsifyoupersistforawhileandthingswillbedifferent.Admittedly,strugglecouldneverbeeasy,butwhoknowswhatyoumayloseifyougiveupandjustletitbe.Therefore,thebeststrategyistofightbackthepredestinedfate.Admittedly,thismovieisnotperfect.Oneofthedeficienciesisthatitbringsintoomanytopichencenoneofthemcanbethoroughlyandprofoundlyanglicized.Inthissense,“Crash”isabettermovie,itdiscussesracialdiscriminationinamorecomprehensiveway.Thisisamoviecanbroadenyourvision,andprobablychangeyourmind.